I'm Andrew Folkler. I am a formerly alienated child who reconnected with my parents as an adult. I'm writing a book called Shortening the Red Thread specifically to help parents like you understand what's actually happening, what works, and what doesn't.
This survey has two phases. Phase 1 takes about 7 to 10 minutes. Phase 2 goes deeper — about 20 to 25 minutes. Your answers will directly shape what goes into this book. There are no wrong answers. Please read the legal disclaimers carefully below. They are required if you choose to take the survey.